Welcome to The Bliss Wish the podcast designed to help you become the best version of yourself. My name is Suchitra Malvankar and I bring to you topics from personal growth, success, productivity, happiness and lifestyle.
I was listening to my favourite book called The
Power by Rhonda Bryne on Audible. Oh how much I love that book. I love listening to it over and over again, especially when I am feeling low and need to feel better. In one of her chapters, she talks about how giving is super important and without giving we shall receive nothing. If you want more you must give more. While listening to this I realised that how its necessary to be a giver first. So I thought I should make a podcast about the same to share with you all the importance of giving.
Sometimes we often get a question like why should I give first or I have nothing to give anything at all. But the truth is that we have far more than we think we have. Our visions have become narrow. We must think with a mindset of abundance. That’s where we must correct ourselves first.
When I decided I wanted to talk about this topic I had many doubts about stopping me from taking action. This is what happens when we decide to do something with all enthusiasm and then suddenly we get demotivated by our very on doubts or from someones negative words.
Everything starts from us for getting anything we want we must put out something into the universe be it a positive thought like wishing something good for someone or for that matter even wishing something good for yourself, this is not a selfish act. Yes! wishing something good for yourself is not a selfish act. Cause our thoughts are powerful that will lead us to take action. And when you take action on that good thought you then see that it brings in all good. It’s like a mirror if you keep giving bad out to the world it all comes back to you. Putting out a positive action into to the world is what will bring us positivity back and all the good we want. So even when you see someone poor or underprivileged be kind and do not give hate to them.
I remember watching the video by Inanna Sarkis on Youtube called In giving, we receive. I had tears in my eyes after seeing that video. In the video, she shows how when we give out hate and negativity it comes back.
Even the words you use to describe someone are a mirror of who you are. And when we start noticing and responding to good things and good people around us we attract those good people to us. It is a wonderful video which has over 6 Million views, I will link her video in the show notes.
Your every action matters. Your every action will decide what you will get back in return. Therefore it’s important to be mindful of what you think cause your thinking will lead you to take action.
Whatever it is you want it will all come to you when you become a giver. For that, you should adopt the mindset of abundance. And when you adopt don’t give up that mindset let that mindset of abundance be like your child who grows up but never leaves your side. When we are in the scarcity mindset we think negatively our every action is filled with fear and doubt.
For example, if you dream for this year is to have a fit body then you must give all that it requires to get the result you want, that is you must give time and workout and deliberately eat food that will get you the results. It’s only when you give time and attention to your goals that’s when you will start receiving the benefit of the same.
Not just personal goals but when we apply this to our relationships we will also reap the same benefit there too. Give hate and you get back the same. Be Kind and you will find someone being kind to you in some way or the other. Whatever it is negative or positive it will come back to you in the same force you send it out. As said by the author Rhonda Byrne that it is like a boomerang when thrown, it comes right back to you. Hence you have to choose wisely what you give out. But it’s important that the habit of giving sets in.
There is no limit to how much we can give. And if you think that one day you will get empty and there will be nothing left for you to give, then you are again adopting the mindset of scarcity. See abundance as an infinite cause it is. We can get everything we want we just need to be willing givers. Be it your personal life, professional life, family life, financial life in every area is a reflection of how much you are giving.
And if you are thinking that if it’s that easy then why is it that hard to get what I want. That’s because giving is not an easy act. Not something everyone can do, I don’t want to sound negative here but without the clarity of what we want its hard to practice giving. If you clearly know your goal then you know what you need to keep giving in order to reach your goal. There is a lot of dedication, effort, disciple it takes to get what we want. Some give up on the way but some who keep putting in that effort get to there goals faster.
Being clear will help you set your priorities in line, so you know what matters and what you have to give to achieve that goal. The more you give the more you get.
But apart from this I feel just being kind to people around will also help you see better results in your life. Even if the two that is your goal and your being kind to others have nothing in common yet in many ways, it will help you see positive results in your life. For example, let’s say you are going out for some work but on the way you find someone needy asking for help. If you can help in any way whether you choose to give money, food, etc. If you don’t wish to give anything at-least do not speak rudely. And not necessary it will be a poor person it can be anyone like someone asking to help them find a place or whatever it may be. Always remember whatever you give out to the universe. It’s all coming back to you.
Sometimes we fail to be kind with our very own loved one in the house. We quick up negativity from somewhere and when we get back home we get angry for no reason on our loved ones. Sometimes getting upset on very small things. When you feel your emotions are getting out of control then give some time to yourself sit down and meditate for some time. Meditation for even 5 mins has a drastic impact on an entire day. Its said that the busier you are the more time you should give to meditate.
And yes before being kind to anyone whether outside or with family. Being kind to yourself is crucial. When you love and take care of yourself that’s when you can give the most to others. So fill up your inner well with positivity.
So before I end this episode I would like to remind you that everything you want in life is all there. If you can imagine it, it already exists. Just make sure that you become a giver. To see the results pick up any one area in your life and give time, money, energy or focus anyone of these and you will see that you will start receiving what you wanted. But if you expect to give nothing and expect loads in return that will never happen. If you have given in the past only then shall you receive it, be it now or later, you will surely get back what you gave. So if you find yourself lacking in any area of your life think what you need to give first. Do not wait for others. The action is to be taken by you.
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